
Vulnerability is what you experience when you take a risk, or leave yourself open to emotional harm. For example, when you hire a babysitter, you’re trusting that person with your child when you confess your feelings for someone, you’re trusting that person with your emotional well-being. Trust is the choice to take something that’s important to you and make it vulnerable to another person-it’s the belief that something you value deeply will be safe with another person. You leave yourselves vulnerable to each other and honor that shared vulnerability with kindness, respect, and warmth. Brown says that love begins with deep trust and the freedom to be yourself: You open yourself up to another person, and that other person opens up to you. Brown defines love as a deep and fulfilling connection between people. Love, Trust, and VulnerabilityĪccording to Brené Brown, love and belonging are basic human needs. Keep reading to learn about the human need for love and belonging, according to Brené Brown. Belonging is when you can truly be yourself, and the people around you love you for it.

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